Thursday, March 19, 2009

the beauty of words

we do not know what words caN lead us to the moment we started to learn and patch them up into meaningfuL sentences

Words uttered can be romantically beautiful which would induce colourful sparKs between loved ones, enable us to communicate and maintain good relationships with family and friends- create warmth and laughter,which would add zest and colours to the bond we share, BUT it may be sarcastically hurting,............... and I'm sure that no one would actually have the intention to hurt others at all times, and if u do, ur definitely suffering from some kind of personality disorder... we, humans tend hurt others although we don't meaN it. And at times, we say things which aren't even compatible with what we're actually thinking, or perhaps, mean something directly opposite.have you ever verbalized something which was neither meant to be offensive nor hurtful but was interpreted by the others wrongly?

As a matter of fact,it is words that will bring and bind us, humans together, but it's also one of the elements that will unexpectedly, drift us apart.
No matter how much we care and thinK before we speak by ensuring all the potentially hurtfuL words are being filtered, somehow, it wouldnt form a full barrier against creating a conflict.All individuals are unique in so many ways, we are brought up in different environments and influenced by mountains of sweet and painful experiences, and these are definitely the causations of different thinkingz apart from varied genes and deoxyribonueclic acids...those brains process things differently, keep that in mind........
Even if the utterence is less than significant, or even sth similar to a mere sigh of hesitation, or a slight pausation, it may still mean something to the other party and might be misinterpreted.
This is the beauty of words and also the absence of them.........I have no idea how much I've hurt others by saying something which i never meant to be hurtfuL or by saying nothing at all.....but definitely, I wouldnt be suprised that there're actually countless of them.we are unique.

Probably, an appropriate cure4 such ailment is a just societY who can forgive and forget~