Fate vs Coincidences

"We are here for a reason to complete the mission from God," the pastor preached. there was I sitting at one of the rows hearing to those preaches, agreeing with what he has said. I wouldn't deny nor will I question about it....But there are some other things that we would question,

the each and every happenings in every minutes and every seconds... we would actually wonder if the memories that forM part of our lives are made up of fate or strings of mere coincidences

such as.....

why am I the last child in my family, or the first?or the second?

Why did I ended up in this college and not another?

why am I on9-ing and not sleeping at this time?why did I make such a choice?

Why was I so lucky? =D

Why is my luck so bad today?

Why
Why
Why, tell me why?...ain't nothing but a heartache

tell me why, ain't nothing but a mistake

yeah~~

Does things happen due to mere coincidences? And most of d dramas or movies, stories or novels...have such heavy element of coincidences...

For instance:

A guy meets a girl coincidentally...

Then, too many coincidences happened

So... coincidently, they fell in love
Coincidentally, the guy confessed.
Coincidentally, the girl accepted.
Coincidentally, the guy proposed so, coincidently, they live happily ever after =D LOL!

I'm not trying to generalize stories here. Novels can be a beautiful piece of art, those stories can be of idealistic, challenging dimensions, movies can be full of ups and downs, with strings of creatively-thought ideas, REAL LIFE memories can be bittersweet, things happening to us differ from one another...but. They still happeN to have that one element= coincidence or, perhaps..FatE??

No matter the memories we posses are due to fate or coincidences, they make up a big part of our lives, don't they? like how we met our friends ..if it isn't because of fate/ coincidences, we would not end up together till today~

Coincidentally, I suddenly thought of reviewing the pictures of our high skUl life during mooncake festivaL and played back the movie Lau gave us ( ..that masterpiece of his that contains a set of awfUl candid shots during high skul) anyway, I'm really glad that he made the effort to make the movie as those pictures refresh our memories, in just a blink of an eye..it's already more den six years since we first entered secondary skul. And all happened so quickly as if they've just happened yesterday. Perhaps, wheN we watch dat movie agaIN or the pictures we have taken once upon a time, we would laugh at ourselves on how innocent we look and how naive our behaviors were, yet acknowledge their 'appreciating' value even more >.< ''

a sweet round, orange....Orange as a resemblance for our society t-shirt ....how thoughtful=p . I couldn't believe how much I miss those days when we were younger~ (p/s: watch it, pals! to those whO own that cd)

we would blame 'FATE' for most of the unwanted happenings in life, and doubt 'FATE' if something great happens so 'COINCIDENCE' always wins...

fate or coincidences ..........the former or the latter......